tegayquin

I can’t believe that there are actually people who are offended by tegan and sara saying that they relate to straight men. that’s their own experience, and you not also being able to relate to that doesn’t make their experience less valid.

both tegan and sara have a lot of straight male friends. being a lesbian doesn’t mean you have to hate men and distance yourself from them instead of trying to relate to them.

Source: akarevs
are peoplea ctually upset by that omgi spent the first probably 16 years of my life only relating to male artists/characters/etc. bc thats all i really hadyea maybe its worth questioning /why/ gay women relate to straight men so much bc of heteronormativity/patriarchy etc but likethis is a) an experience a lot of lesbians have and b) not like????? a bad thing???????????